What Annoys Women, AND What Attracts Them

If you listen to women talk about men, you'll often hear them use the word “ANNOYING" to describe certain men and certain things that some men DO.


Now, as you can probably guess, it's not usually a good thing when a woman uses this particular word to describe a guy... And, as you can ALSO probably guess, when a woman uses this particular word, it's not usually about guys who she is ATTRACTED to (although this isn't always true).
   
THINGS THAT ANNOY WOMEN...

·         Calling her too often

·         Telling her that you have "feelings" for her too
early

·         Giving away your power to her and making her the
boss 

·         Always asking a woman what she wants instead of
leading

·         Acting submissive and weak

·         Accepting her demands, bossy-ness, and
manipulative requests

·         Being her doormat and putting your own needs
aside

   "HOW COULD THIS BE?"... You might be thinking. Well guess what? IT IS.


Women, and ESPECIALLY the most ATTRACTIVE and desirable women, usually consider the above things to be VERY annoying. 

Of course, the reason for this is because no matter how good these kinds of behaviors seem on the surface, there's only one conclusion that can be drawn from them;
THE MAN DOING THEM IS A BONAFIDE, 100% CERTIFIED WUSSY! AND WOMEN AREN'T ATTRACTED TO WUSSIES. NEVER!


So now you understand why all of the "nice" things that you've done for women seem to always result in the woman pulling away. It's because she finds your nice-guy "Wuss" behaviors to be ANNOYING.


AND IT KEEPS GETTING WORSE...


To further confuse things, you'll often hear a woman say something to the effect of... "I want a STRONG guy who is also SENSITIVE..." ...or... "He needs to have his own life, his own interests, and his own friends, but also be totally focused on me..."


Women often talk about wanting a combination of things in a man that just don't seem to fit... 


So what's going on here? Are women crazy? (Yes.)


But seriously, what are they talking about? How is it that women seem to always talk about wanting men who have these qualities that don't fit together?


I thought that maybe this came down to getting my lazy ass to the gym and working out. You know, to become "stronger". Well, here's the BIG REALIZATION that I had... I've now realized that I had it all wrong.
Instead of thinking to myself that I was a nice, sensitive guy that needed to become a little stronger, what I really needed was to become a strong guy who could also act sensitive on occasion. 


The difference seems almost like word-play, but it's not. You see, when a woman says that she wants a "strong guy who's also sensitive", what she means, is that She wants a guy who's STRONG. The sensitive part is far more "optional" than the STRONG part.


This is why women often date jerks and guys who are emotionally unavailable, and don't date "nice guys" who would do anything for them.


THINGS THAT ATTRACT WOMEN...

·         Lean back. Act Cocky & Funny around women. Bust on them and give them a hard time. And LEAD the way, don't follow

·         Body Language is more important than WORD language. In fact, you can have the smoothest "pick up lines" in the world... but if you don't understand Body Language, the woman you're talking to CAN'T feel ATTRACTION for you.

·         Doing "nice" things for a woman doesn't make her any more likely to feel ATTRACTION for you. In fact, most of these things BACKFIRE... and end up pushing her AWAY.

·         Even though "jerks" and "bad boys" don't treat women well, it doesn't mean that women don't feel ATTRACTION for them. In fact, women often report feeling INCREDIBLY attracted to these kinds of men... so powerfully, in fact, that they can't CONTROL these feelings...