Subconcious Signals Women Send That Leave Them Single

There are several ways to communicate and nonverbal is often the loudest. One can think they are communicating one thing but are actually subconsciously projecting another tale all together. These cues are often picked up by others unknowingly and they unconscious respond to the displayed stimuli. Men also pick up on these nonverbal cues that women unconsciously send and they react to them accordingly, women may not know why men keep repelling them and proposing to their friends but this is a major factor. An example, for the sake of empathy, is meeting a person for the first time and during your interaction you feel like you've known them all your life, primarily because your verbal and your nonverbal communication is in sync. You feel comfortable around them because what they saying and what their body is also saying is in comport and consistent so you believe them and thus a connection forms. This is the same combustion that occurs when a man meets a woman and although she thinks she's communicating the commitment she so much desires, she is actually non-verbally dissuading a relationship. I have selected a few common nonverbal cues that women 'accidentally' send to men that leave them single- I have segregated them into 3 categories: What you think: what you communicate: what he does.

Independence

What you think: I am independent. I can buy my own drinks, I can pay my own bills, I own my  car and I don't need a man to tell me what to do.
What you communicate: I don’t need a man
What he does: Propose to your friend and you are a bride’s maid.

Socialite

What you think: I like to have fun and meet new people; it’s mainly for networking and plain fun. It doesn’t mean that I’ll hook with just any random guy. Am just social.
What you communicate: Am an unstable being who needs to constantly surround myself with people in order to feel special and important.
What he does: Propose to your friend and you are a bridesmaid.

Alcohol

What you think: I enjoy the occasional drink with my friends and I don’t drink much however I know if I get out of hand my friends will take care of me.
What you communicate: Drinking is my excuse to participate in sordid behavior that I blame on alcohol.
What he does:  Propose to your friend and you are a bridesmaid.

Buying Expensive Fake Labels

What you think: I like to look good and spending a little extra even though I know the brand is fake doesn’t hurt, as long as I look great.
What you communicate: I am a fake ass bitch who doesn’t focus on value but impression. I will only value our relationship as long as you keep being worth something.
What he does: Propose to your friend and you are a bridesmaid.

Girlfriends

What you think: My girls and I are tight, we’ve known each other since secondary and I know they always have my back.
What you communicate: I am a complete package, marry me and know that you also ‘marry’ my girls as they are also a part of me.
What he does: Propose to your girlfriends and you are not asked to be a bridesmaid.

Smoking

What you think: I can quit smoking anytime, I just do it when I go out or when am stressed…but I can quit anytime.
What you communicate: Despite all the fucking health warnings I still smoke to look cool so I obviously don’t care about my health so why should you care for me.
What he does: Propose to your friend and you are a bridesmaid.

Casual Sex

What you think: It’s my body and I have the right to sleep with whomever I choose, besides am single and free.
What you communicate: Am whore and shall spread it for anyone.
What he does: Propose to your friend, fuck you and not invite you for the wedding.

Sex on First Date

What you think: I really like this guy and I know if I give him sex he will keep taking me out to expensive restaurants in his Range Rover.
What you communicate: Any guy who takes me or has ever taken me to an expensive restaurant in a Range Rover shall get to hit this.
What he does: Proposes to a virgin.

Before you indulge in certain behavior that would be detrimental to your getting married, do think about the nonverbal messages it carries because unfortunately you shan’t have the chance to explain yourself to the man who is watching or even interacting with you. Subconscious communication carries more weight than verbal communication so if you keep finding yourself a bridesmaid to your friend’s weddings please ask yourself what nonverbal cues you are sending out and remember it is not what it is…it is what it seems.

Professor Flibbertigibbet