Women test men because they need to QUICKLY figure out what they're dealing with, and they can't expect a man to just be straight up and honest about his strengths and weaknesses.
I mean, let's face it... we guys like to talk a big game, but when it comes to walking the talk,we often can't BACK IT UP. Also, beautiful women have a lot of options. They have their pick of men. And beautiful women prefer STRONG men. Not physically strong (although this can be an advantage), but strong in CHARACTER and PERSONAL IDENTITY. Remember! Women aren't attracted to WUSSIES.
So let me ask you... if you were an attractive woman that was being chased around by 100 guys,how would YOU go about figuring out which one or ones were the "real deal" and which were merely FAKING strength and confidence? Of course... you'd have to TEST them. But you couldn't test by saying, "OK, I'm going to give you a test now, so get ready."
No no NO! You'd have to use "blind" tests. Tests that would allow you to see a man's true strengths and weaknesses. And in fact, you'd want to use tests that ideally DIDN'T ALLOW HIM TO KNOW THAT YOU WERE TESTING... OR WHAT YOU HAD DISCOVERED ABOUT HIM WITH THOSE TESTS. This way, if he turned out to be a Wuss Bag, you could slip away quickly and easily.
This would give you the power... Of course. And if you did this OFTEN, you'd eventually become so accustomed to doing it, that MANY of the tests would become SUBCONSCIOUS and work their way into your NATURAL, EVERYDAY way of communicating
with men.
Well, guess what? That's what is going on with beautiful women. Many of the tests that they use with men are actually OUTSIDE OF THEIR AWARENESS. They test us
automatically! And if you fail one of these tests, there's a good chance that you won't get another chance. In this fast-paced world, we humans don't have the time to spend getting to know people over a few months or years to figure out whether or not they're the kind of person that would make a good
friend or mate. We need to know NOW.
So we use shortcuts. Testing is a shortcut for women. It lets them discover VERY RAPIDLY whether you have BALLS, or if you're just another one of the bazillion Wusses that are trying to get her attention. I hope you feel what I'm saying.
So, the next time you're standing in front of a beautiful woman who you've just asked for her number and she says, "Why don't you just give me yours and I'll call YOU..." try CHUCKLING out loud, and saying:
"Oh, come on. Don't give me that old line. Write your number down and I'll only call you 25 times a day until you wind up having to change it because I have nothing better to do with my time than call someone who doesn't want to hear from me." Then hand her a pen, point to the paper, and look her in the eye expectantly.
Love it.
Now, obviously there's a lot more to this issue of TESTING. There's a lot more going on than meets the eye. There are all kinds of subtle cues and body language that women read to decide just what kind of man you are... and these cues also trigger ATTRACTION (or the opposite).
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